Finding a new Doctor SUCKS...but there is a happy ending!

Baby Boomers like me grew up in a world that was overwhelmingly hostile to our sexual orientations and gender identities. It was dangerous, even illegal, in most places to be a part of the same- sex loving community.

Yet as we came out to family, friends, and employers, we paved the way to a far more tolerant and accepting society. We survived the social panic and political hysteria of the early years of the AIDS epidemic. After decades of struggle, we’ve even lived to see the right to same-sex marriage become the law of the land.

Now, as we grow older, we face isolation and potentially debilitating health issues that come with aging. But even worse, there is a growing movement in our society that would like nothing better than to turn back the clock and force LGBTQ elders back into the closet.

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Portia Faces Life: Social Isolation

SOCIAL ISOLATION… if one can truly HATE a term, for me it is that one! LGBTQ older adults were already more likely to be socially isolated. That is for a number of reasons: we are less likely to have partners, we are definitely less likely to have children and grandchildren, and our children are the built-in caregivers in our society. They say 50% of us LGBTQ folk are single. So for us, sheltering in place meant more likely that you were alone, which for a lot of our community members was a real challenge.

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Portia Faces Life - 10/7/2019

If you’re a younger gay person, respect your elders, look at us and understand that you will be old someday, if you’re lucky enough to avoid dying young of some disease or accident. The older gay and trans individuals have a lot to teach, and you have a lot to learn.

Remember, we learned a lot by having to survive and cope with what we endured during the 70’s, 80's and 90's. And most importantly, everyone remember…we are STILL here, and we are STILL Queer! (Click here to read more)

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Portia Faces Life - 8/1/2019

We’re all human, we’re all aging and we all need support in making our way through this crazy world!

There are too many older LGBT people in Dallas who do not have the community support they need to thrive.

Aging can be rough for anyone. But when you’re part of a marginalized, often underrepresented community — LGBTQ seniors, for instance , it can be extra tough….. (Click here to read more)

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Portia Faces Life - 7/24/2019

I like to describe myself as a proudly visible member of the most invisible segment of our society – an LGBT Senior.

LGBTQ seniors have spent the majority of their lives experiencing discrimination and have now also lived through the incredible progress of the past 10 years.

Just take a minute and think about it…….. (Click here to read more)

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